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I love to smile and keep smiling but trust me even at the silliest joke I actually start Laughing... :D

March 13, 2009

All the world's a stage

I am sure all of you have read this at least once in your life.

William Shakespeare - All the world's a stage

All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
And then the whining school-boy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honour, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slipper'd pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side,
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank; and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.

AMEN!!!

I wanted to talk something about how a gal child grew up to be an adolescent and then a young lady and then a women and then.....it will go on...!

Stage I ( As an Infant):

A girl child was born to a very poor family in a very remote village in Eastern India. Let's name her Deepika here. It was the year beginning when she was born. She was the most charming kid for her granny, her papa, her neighbors and her brother. She looked so much like a Chinese doll with small eyes, small nose (almost invisible - like Chinese), and fair skin. She was the heart beat for many. She grew to be a year old, her brother who was then going to nursery got her a chocolate (which he got in his school for someone's B'Day - imagine a LKG kid getting the choc to home without eating), without anyone's notice he put it in his lil sweet sis' mouth. Lil did he knew that it is a dangerous act. It was only his love for his laadli. Her granny was around and so she escaped the danger. She started crawling without the knees touching on the floor much (very conscious you see.. ;)) and then slowly learned to walk with holding her mother's finger and papa's sometimes. She lived the princess' life not by outer looks but she indeed lived like the princess in her palace. She was extremely different to her brother. He was a brave kid. He played with cats and dogs while his lil sis was even scared of soap foam. She turns pink, blue and then black when she cries. She looses her breath if she cries. Her mum runs to save her life, takes her in arms and runs to the near by tub of water, puts her in and then she is relieved...She had pain crying. Imagine a child not being able to even cry. She was a year and half when her granny left her laadli.

Her life took a turn at the age of 2 when her papa moved to another city. Her mama could not accompany her. She had a job in the city and papa was not to get a high pay (remember she is from a poor family???) and so it was decided that mama will stay back while papa with Deepika and her bro will move to the new city. They come to a new city, a city of culture, city of temples, city of calm minded people. She wanted to go to school at age 2 and half as she saw her brother always going to school with so many notebooks and books. She used to take a bag, hang it on the shoulder and goto one end of the balcony making it a school and she being a teacher teaching wiered characters as A B C. She goes to the other end of the balcony to help earn money for her papa, she works in an imaginary office. she is hungry, she goes to the kitchen to find some eatables; she finds none and satisfies herself with a pinch of salt. She is energetic again. She waits for her bhaiya to come back home and then they play games, hit each other, watch TV, play wiered games (like watching an Ad and finding the same material at home - who ever brings the same material in front of the TV is the WINNER). Mama payed visit now and then and Deepika and her bhaiya wrote list of complaints against their cousin (who stayed with them for his higher studies), lists of things they want, lists of activities they do generally at home and finally bhaiya's home-works and class-works and Deepika's wiered characters written(not scribbled!!! 'for her') in the diaries. When asked what she wanted to be when she grows up, she answered 'A Mother' (she missed her mama a lot); sometimes 'A BUS - Conductor' (Conductors have so much money in their purse - you see); 'A Teacher' (She still desires to be one) and many more (depending on the mood and situation ;)) Lil did anyone know that this city will change Deepika's life and make her a strong women that she is now.

To be Contd...

March 11, 2009

Women 2.0 Summit (March 13)

Here is an opportunity for all women professionals in your organization to attend the Women2.0 Summit.

In the honour of International Women's day, siliconindia is organizing an exclusive forum for women technology professionals: Women 2.0 Summit on March 13, 2009 in Bangalore, Hyderabad, Chennai & Pune. At the summit you will find women from all levels of the technology industry. This is a platform for wide range of professional development and networking opportunities. One of the Summits goals is to create a forum where women in technology can be promoted as role models.

At the Summit, there would be four panel discussions on:
Ascending the Corporate Ladder
Women's Work: The Great Juggling Act
Strategic Mentoring: The Power of Many
The Women Entrepreneurs

We have lined up impressive set of speakers from Microsoft, Cisco, Intel, Amazon, Unisys, Citrix, Infosys, Texas Instruments, UST Global, Harbinger, AppLabs, FXLabs, Alcatel-Lucent, Satyam, Virtusa, Ramco, Hexaware, Zensar, Persistent Systems and many more.

This Summit is all about how women professionals can reach the next level in their professional life. They will discover how to channel your expertise and creativity into an effective leadership style that delivers results and allows them to stand out from the crowd. The Summit has been designed to enable women technology professionals to expand their network and help in professional development. They benefit from networking, connecting, learning and interacting with women at all levels in their careers, in all areas of technology.

Please note, we have very limited seats. If you would like to nominate women professionals from your organization, please send us the following details at the earliest. Passes will be given out to those who respond to this mail on first-cum-first-serve basis only.
Name
Designation
Company Name
Mobile number
City

There is no limit for number of nominations from a particular organization. We encourage you to pass on this note to all women professionals you may know of because this Summit is specially designed to help them in their professional life. Also kindly send it to your managers, HR and CEOs so that your organization also benefits.

DATE: MARCH 13, 2009 FRIDAY
TIME: 9.00 to 4.30 PM

We will notify the venue to the delegates upon confirmation.


reply-to : lakshmi@siliconindia.com


Thanks
siliconindia

An Invitation - School ReUnion

Hi buddies....

Last benchers busy eating the lunch from the bags in the line behind.
First benchers taking serious notes and hiding the mischiefs of the back benchers
Few Studs busy playing Book cricket.
Some pretty ladies gossiping
Some one staring at the girl in the building just behind the class room.
Some enjoying the PT hours of other classes through the window.
and and and...some being the center of attraction in the corridor (kneel downs and out-standing studs)

Ahhh....the days with the scotching sun above the head in the thirsty PT hours; the uncountable number of punishments; the games played; the pranks played; the curses on studies; the nick names for the teachers; the sad/happy days of results; the forming of gangs; hitting each other with chalks inbetween 2 periods; playing cricket with exam pad and ball out of papers; puncturing the enemies' cycle; njoying someone else's punishment; making craft works; some learning electronics; managing some pocket money for eating those
samosas from the bakery outside;those running behind teachers for grace marks to escape a red report card; those untold/told crushes/infactuations and so much more....hey wait...I am forgetting something, of which the BASICS were learnt at that age....COPY during Exams....!!! Whatever we learnt at that tender age....to some extent we could make use of except the Concepts of Copying which we almost use regularly... ;) That's the best lesson learnt and was taught by no one...It is, an in built talent we all have. Hey toppers...don't hesitate...even you have had... ;)

and i swear i dare forget the back bites eh!!! The only thing everyone of us did but knew and wholly understood that it was wrong... ;) and remember the unity between all, when the class was being caught by the teachers for noise??? and remember the 8 on 9 periods of continuous PT hours(A section studs during 8th std?) and remember the jealous fights between the sections??? Oh Oh oh....hell a lot eh!!! and tough competiotions between players on and off the ground; the fights between the Houses. The 2-3 days of Sports meet and the Annual Function held anually ofcourse, with lot of performances and envying on the 100% attendance holders...The APSC games where you compete with the toughest of the toughest teams struggling to be the Winner or Runner-Up...Oh yes thats when even enemies used to be friends... ;)

Now why am I repeating Enemies words over and over again??? Trust me at that point of time we only knew 3 relationships...BestFriend/Friend/Enemy.... ;) And thats how we categorized all. And remember the mis-understandings with our seniors??? and the snubs??? and the Gaalis/Thittus??? and the crushes on some??? ;)


YES...young ladies and gentle Men...I was talking about our good old school days....where we learnt our first rhyme...where we learnt the first letters....where we learnt the chatters...where we learnt the Gaalis...and being a Chinmayeet...Not to forget that we also learnt Bhajans...which we hardly remember now... ;) what fun it was to stand in the straight(like a snake???) line for the morning prayers; and what fun it was to come for the republic day and independence day celebration with boring speeches and interesting performances. And remember how we wondered about receiving chocolates even on Independence day when we knew every year it will be given only on the Republic day...


I seriously wonder if this mail would ever end.... ;) but why am i writing all these today? am i nuts??? yes I am nuts for the reason that we all the good old classies meeting up this sunday to revive the (G)olden days of our life...This sunday is the occassion or a reason for this celebration...It's N.Ashwin's Last Bachelorhood B'Day and Hemamalini's B'Day... :) We all treating with this Shock cum Surprise on their B'Day. Lets get2gether for this occassion that will mark the beginning of an other innings of our school days... ;) Lets be Children once again...Lets get mischieveous again...Lets just hit the floor and care of nothing but just fun... :)

Venue: Chinmaya Vidyalaya Main Gate
Date : 01-March -2009
Time : 4.30pm to 5.00pm


Lets Rock again.... :)

Hike and No-Hike

This is my first blog. At this point of time; I have only one point in my mind (in fact it is the same point in everyone's mind now), HIKE???

Oh well...I remember when I first joined work, I wondered what's this Appraisal interview and what's this Hike in real terms. Leave alone PF and Allowances...Frankly that swirls my mind even now... :P

Initially you rate yourself on various activities. And then THE DAY arrives. You go inside a room with your boss and your super-boss. They screw you for the work you HAVE done...(even if that has really got an applause from your client - I will come to the client stories later). you are a victim; the judge(super-boss) enjoys the assaults; the lawyer embarrasses you with irrelevant questions(why did u use x as the variable and why not y); and at the end of the session you are hanged(no points); and HR polishes the whole appraisal sessions by giving NO HIKE - BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME. Oh..Did I say all these...Sorry X-Boss. Well I really did not face all these. I have been lucky in the podium with no judge just the nice lawyer. :) but no use! still NO HIKE :( I see the curious eyes outside the room now and then wondering 'pone barah baje...What's goinon (song from Salaam Namastey)'. My experience was very much at 11.45, AM though. I look at the curious eyes and smile back at them when my boss is busy marking points 3 on 5(in people skills); 1 on 5(technical knowledge); 2 on 5 and so on...I counted all the points and I ended up with 1.9 :) oh wow...I thought!!! I was praised!!! My boss did confirm back with me 'R U HAPPY?'. I said I am! Now who did really know, what 1.9 will bring to you and what 2.3(few of my friends scored) will bring. I remember my HR also saying that 'You being a fresher and as your 1 year term gets over after 3 months; you will have another round of appraisal. Hey guys; imagine another round of appraisal!!! I really wondered 'What happens in this IT Service Industry yaar?' Anyway We kept waiting...and one day my Boss calls me and hands over a letter. The letter read ' You have been promoted as Asst. Systems Analyst' (it was Asst. Systems Analyst Trainee before) and your hike is 10.3%. Now don't ask on how much!!! I got frustrated. I wondered if there will really be another round of appraisal. I talked to HR and to haste! I was literally hanged! I was accused! I was I was I was...now what to say...! It was all over. I have no extra money for the extra shopping; no extra money for those extra coffee in the coffee day; no extra money for extra those extra gol gappes. Life came to a stand still. I wondered if I must fight for it. I was cheated. I called all my friends who had similar issue. I had a talk with them. I wanted to know how many of them are ready for the fight. I said 'Don't sign until there is a proper hike' Everyone nodded. But again to haste. I failed one more time. The appraisal brought ingratitude. It discouraged me, I was disappointed, I dint know what would I do for my loan and lot more promises that I have made to my parents and my siblings.

I dint want to leave the organization. My boss was super good, my colleagues were too considerate and helping, my team as such was just like a family. I know lot of you will wonder how can a person talk good about her office and the environment. But I will. I did not have any complaints. I enjoyed my work. I enjoyed the people there. I was having fun at my work place. But at the same time I wanted money to survive in the fast moving world. I wanted to be appreciated in the monitory terms. I wanted it!!!

Now...Today I am doing great. In a new company new environment new kind of job and new boss. I met with an accident which fractured my leg and that changed my life. I had a U-Turn! I molded my career with my own hands. I made it look perfect. I wanted to add few more advantages to my job profile. I am perfectly fine with my work now... :)

Do I sound too happy??? Oh yes!! I am! And you all too should be. Life is not to crib about recessions and inflations! Thats nature! Lets live life the way we want and not how someone else wants... :)